Parents who live in the city think that he was spoiled too much when he was a child, which made him develop all kinds of bad habits. Knowing that a good life is hard to come by, they sent him to his hometown in the countryside. They didn’t want him to let his grandfather stay together and herd sheep, hoping that everything would make him bored and change. Just when he was excited, he finally got rid of the school shackles and didn’t want his grandfather to sit on the vast grass with a small bench for one day. He slept on the grass for one afternoon and felt that the sky was blue and the grass was green. Gradually, when he was released by the energy method, he rushed the sheep from one end to the other. Grandpa was not in good health at that time, and he couldn’t catch him. But after a while, he would drive the sheep back and forth. After a while, he also felt tired and worried about playing something new, which completely changed him.
One day, he drove the sheep to a far place, had lunch and didn’t come back until the evening. When he came back, he saw that Grandpa had been sitting there all the time, and no one was there. He thought that Grandpa might have gone home first or went to find him, but when he approached, he saw Grandpa lying in the grass, and I don’t know when Grandpa died of a heart attack.
This is tantamount to giving him a day to thunder and wake him up. If he is obedient and doesn’t go far away, maybe he can send his grandfather to the hospital. Grandpa may live for a few more years. Although his parents have been trying to comfort him, he said that grandpa’s poor health is not his fault, but he is forgiving himself. At that time, he was sixteen years old.
Seeing grandpa off, the next day, he led the sheep to let his mother stop him and said, don’t go. If you really want your grandpa to do something, go back and study hard and take a big exam in the future. Your grandpa will be happy when he knows it, so he won’t die if he doesn’t die. He is sixteen years old, 1.75 meters tall and became a junior high school student.
He said that no matter what difficulties he encountered, he would think of grandpa lying on the grass and feeling cold. He thought grandpa would look at him.
He said that I still want to thank those inhuman years, which made me discover that I was physically evil and crouched in this evil time. When I saw sitting in front of me, I was gentle and gentle. It was difficult for him to connect his gangsters who fought all day, let alone imagine that a talented student who graduated from a famous school had spent a year herding sheep.
This is the road to growth. If the past is unbearable, it will become our future wealth. Don’t be afraid of making mistakes and don’t feel that if you make mistakes, you will never have a chance to turn over. If you treat this experience well, it will give you poor supplies.
One of my high schools dreamed of going to Fudan University with him in high school, but for various reasons, he went to an ordinary second school unexpectedly. After he arrived at this school, he skipped school seriously, occasionally fought and fell madly in love, which reached a point of no dignity.
At that time, he was pursuing a girl, but people didn’t turn him down for many times, and he still pursued her, so the girl said, if you kneel for me, I will promise you. The girl said this to provoke him to leave. Unexpectedly, he knelt without saying anything, or the girl was frightened in front of the class. No matter how he repeatedly begged her to fulfill her promise, she dared not face him again.
One day, he suddenly realized that he had reached a point where everyone was bored. If he continued to harm himself in this way, he would still go back to that place where he wanted to get rid of the countryside all the time. His heart that he didn’t want to be looked down upon was finally aroused, so he asked to be demoted, work hard from scratch and graduate smoothly. Now he is a big boss in the newspaper industry. Whenever this happens, he is not shy about saying that it is a good thing that he has completely fallen once in that hormonal flying age, or the next generation will not know what it is like to be hated by everyone.
Joke, joke, fortunately, at that time, he was heading for an enterprising road. If he was still willing to sink into it, it would be unimaginable. We don’t encourage everyone to have a bad time, but we say that once you have done it, don’t be afraid. Don’t worry about the future because of all the past. Keep your eyes on the front knot and it won’t be bad.
Another of my predecessors who greatly admired me told me that at that time, he had to do a good job in taking over the magazine and needed to advertise. At first, he found several companies that were unwilling to launch it. After one after another failed, one company finally promised him that he could try it. He thought that the boss would have a meal and hope to talk about it at the dinner table. After that, he finally refused to advertise. After a long time, he suddenly said that you could drink another catty of white wine, and I would give you 100 thousand, and then I would give you 200 thousand.
At that time, he had drunk a lot of wine, but he also knew that 200,000 magazines would bring him back to life, so he forced himself to drink two kilos without saying anything. He said that he was completely unconscious after drinking. Finally, he didn’t know how the game dispersed. The next day, he arrived at the 200,000, and his colleagues told him that you had been sitting on the ground for more than a kilo. The boss advised you not to drink it, but you couldn’t hear anything and drank two kilos.
He gave up his dignity and gave up the 200 thousand money that could save their lives. He has supported a magazine. Until now, he has said that he can do meaningful things without dignity, so he would lose it.
Whether we are in our youth or in our passionate youth or middle-aged life, we may lose ourselves and give up ourselves at every stage. Some people give up and give up a generation of passive Nuo Nuo, and some people become more and more brave and want themselves. No matter how you have lived, remember that wise people will get what they want in the payment.
Laugh at others no matter how hard it is.
You cry and tell others that others will laugh at you in your heart, while you smile and tell others that others will cry in your heart. This is everyone’s logic.
Every time I am criticized by our company, I haven’t recovered. Colleagues all around me rush to comfort you. Don’t be sad. It’s no big deal. You think it’s just no big deal. I think it’s right for our company to criticize me for not being serious. Why should I be sad? If you say that your boyfriend broke up in a circle of friends, it’s even worse. When you look at the face and comment and comfort, you will feel that you should drink medicine to poison yourself once or jump over a river to show their sadness.
You failed to start a business. You got up this morning, drank a cup of coffee and bathed in the warm sunshine, and suddenly you felt so happy. Seeing acquaintances almost invariably said that it should be like this. It’s no big deal to fail once. It’s the most important thing to enjoy your life. You can’t wait to drop your coffee cup after reading it, thinking that you are really good. I will be cured by you after drinking a cup of coffee.
Since childhood, the elders have been telling us the difficulties. Don’t say that even if others can’t help you, at least you will feel better in your heart. When you grow up, you will know how kind your elders are. Think that the fact is that you are in trouble. Don’t say that you have said that others can’t help you, and they may even add extra pressure to your heart. Instead of feeling bad, you will feel even more sad.
This kind of person doesn’t know that you are not around for five minutes, and she cried to her about something. She will comfort you in five minutes, and then in eight minutes, she said that she has done a lot of things in this matter. No matter what she talked about, she can easily transition to her own excellent and happy success. This is not over yet. After half an hour, it is estimated that several people around you will know about your crying. She will explain that it will be better for a few more people to comfort you. You can’t wait to slap yourself and make yourself talkative.
Before, I was also a person who wanted to call my friends at the first time when I was in trouble. Gradually, I found myself like a Xianglin sister-in-law, and others remembered that you were suffering. Your tears seemed to be more impressive than happiness, and crying was much more impressive. Others saw you as a unlucky person.
I remember that when I was a freshman, I took an elective course in physical education as an aerobics class. A girl’s personality was stiff and uncoordinated, and she didn’t know what to do. After the first class, she was called to the front row by the teacher. The teacher said to the teacher, I think you have the worst foundation in our class, so you can stay in this position every time. It is convenient for me to teach you by hand. After that, she can see her teeth bared in the front row because of the tension and great pressure. She is almost devastated. After the first class, she cried loudly in the classroom until now.
Later, every class, she came to the front row and didn’t smile at all. Even if the teacher made a funny move, she never laughed. She didn’t dare to play with her in the same class. She was worried that there would be a silence. She would wear headphones and listen to songs by the window. She danced aerobics clumsily for a period. Although she could see her hard, every move was not in place.
Up to now, I still remember that she was not because her aerobics was funny, but because she cried that time, which made us all witness that she was sad and made us afraid to go near her. That time, she made us feel particularly poor and lucky, but how dare the lucky people be happy together? That time, she seemed to be wearing a layer of armor, and she couldn’t laugh if she wanted to. Everyone witnessed that she cried and laughed, which made it seem so insignificant.
I think if she was smiling and joking with her teacher at that time, even though she was bloody in heart, the joke knot might be completely different. Maybe she would blend in with us and we are willing to help her in private. Maybe the teacher would think that she is an easy-going person and would like to teach her more lessons. Maybe she would gradually feel that she is not so bad and find that there are still a few people around her. They can form an alliance and have the cheek to enjoy different dance happiness. It is more likely that she will be happy. One day, she will spend more time practicing and become a aerobics teacher.
But when she cries, it may be impossible. That’s the power of crying. Crying is destructive and laughing is constructive. Crying will make you fall deeper and deeper in crying, while laughing will inspire you to clear the clouds and see the light of day.
What’s worse, the hard road is not that you have chosen the knot, that you have the ability to choose yourself, that you have to bear the strength to face it, and that you have to tell others through laughter that you don’t regret your choice, and that you are your hero in your world.
Wu Nianzhen said in these people’s stories that her mother said that no matter how hard it is, she should laugh to the sky, but Grandma Saga is sharper. She said that no matter how hard it is, she should make God laugh. God is fate and should let fate applaud itself. If we can’t face all kinds of fate, let others see it first. You should lead your emotions instead of letting others define your emotions.
True or false, just live like this.
Isn’t it true to pretend to be a generation
I once read such a short story in an English magazine. A humble man wanted to pursue a charming woman, but one day he got a chance to drink coffee. Because he was nervous, he wanted to tell the clerk to add some sugar, but he accidentally said to add some salt. sal didn’t have the courage to correct the young lady because she was particularly interested in his hobby. He asked him if there was any special reason. He made it up smoothly that he grew up at the seaside and often licked salty water, but now he has been away from home for a long time, but he still wants to keep it like this. A way of missing hometown is coincidental. This woman is also deeply attached to her hometown, so the two of them have a new topic. Finally, they get together slowly and charmingly, only to find out that this unattractive man thinks that men are kind, responsible and careful. He didn’t tell her that he was wrong until the man died. In fact, he would rather drink coffee with sugar, but in the next life, he would like to drink her coffee with salt.
Everyone knows that disguise is not good and deceptive, but this man’s little disguise has brought him sweet love. Without this disguise, he may miss her all his life. Even if he is excellent, she has no chance to find some sweet and moving details in love. Don’t care too much about its authenticity. Be sincere and reliable. Even a little selfishness is worth going to.
In fact, it is very difficult for us to tell whether things are true or false. When we look at a child of one or two years old in the mirror, we are not sure whether it is true. If you hold him in front of the mirror and watch him, he will stare at the mirror for a long time, as if wondering who that person is. The mirror is very interesting. At the same time, it also makes people doubt that they have a special thing besides the mirror. Language makes people express themselves and pretend to be in daily conversations. We seem to be telling the truth, but we always unconsciously embellish it. Whether it is more interesting or the other person’s status limit, we should exclaim whether
I know my own contradictions, let alone tell whether I am pretending. I think camouflage is a false proposition. I was deeply impressed by one of the people in China who moved in 11 years. He is the vice minister of the Ministry of Public Security, Discipline Inspection Commission, and Liu Jinguo. In this era of official corruption, he did too many things to keep cool. In this era when party member’s ruling ability was questioned, his people shared weal and woe. It is said that party member did these things all the time, but even these things were questioned by many people. They said that Liu Jinguo. All this is for others to see, and it’s all pretending. When the host gave him feedback on these questions, he smiled and asked, I am pretending, so isn’t it true that I have been pretending to be a generation?
This is the most powerful word I heard in that year. Yeah, isn’t it true to pretend to be a generation? China people pay attention to the death of a coffin before they can evaluate someone’s life. When I look at it from a hundred years ago, what is a little doubt? I think maybe the only thing we can do is to pretend all the time.
It seems that doubting the truth is a sign of progress, but in fact, turning a blind eye to the truth will make things easier. I remember when I was a child, a girl in our class was particularly vain. Every day, she boasted about her family. At that time, all her friends in the same village shouted and went to her house to see how she could take them. So she thought that we had a boa constrictor that ate children. You must never go to our family. The friends were so scared that they almost peed their pants that she dared not go for many years. Zhi Bao used to brag as if she said that the python ladder didn’t look at the real world. When I came home last year, I met her with a child in her hand, still bragging. But this time, she said that she was working outside the home. Her husband said that she went to Gai Lou in the United States for a while and won the lottery for a while. Her junior high school culture husband obviously looked like a superman.
I think she should have spent her whole generation bragging. When you stare at her eyes, you will believe her. She said that she expressed both details and feelings properly and firmly. When she was a child, she felt very happy. She was able to keep her passion for a hobby for so many years and her fictional world was still so beautiful.
Let’s pretend that it hurts people. Maybe a despicable villain pretends to be a person who loves public welfare, maybe a vain person becomes a dreamer, or maybe a bad person pretends to be better. Who can guarantee that these things will not be realized?
The only enemy is yourself.
